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\u5185\u5bb9\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n [00:06:56] \u4e00\u5237\u8fc7\u540e\uff0c\u5404\u81ea\u6d41\u6cea\u7684\u65e0\u8a00\u7684\u591c\uff0c\u5c0f\u5434\u7684\u6050\u60e7\u4e0e\u8001\u9c7c\u7684\u80c6\u602f<\/p>\n [00:15:14] \u4ee5\u300c\u53f2\u300d\u4e3a\u9274\uff0c\u548c\u975e\u767e\u5206\u767e\u5408\u62cd\u7684\u4f34\u4fa3\u300c\u4e0d\u8bf4\u518d\u89c1\u300d<\/p>\n Part 1: \u767e\u5206\u767e\u5408\u62cd\u662f\u4f34\u4fa3\u95f4\u5171\u540c\u5efa\u7b51\u7684\u5b8c\u7f8e\u9519\u89c9<\/strong><\/p>\n [00:24:23] Checklist \u5f0f\u7684\u5408\u62cd\uff0c\u5e76\u65e0\u592a\u591a\u6280\u672f\u542b\u91cf<\/p>\n [00:28:24] \u300c\u5c31\u50cf\u5386\u53f2\u603b\u662f\u80dc\u5229\u8005\u4e66\u5199\u7684\uff0c\u76f8\u9047\u7684\u6d6a\u6f2b\u4e0e\u5fc5\u7136\u6027\u4e5f\u603b\u662f\u7531\u70ed\u604b\u7684\u60c5\u4fa3\u4e66\u5199\u7684\u3002\u300d<\/p>\n [00:30:16] \u300c\u5408\u62cd\u300d\u5e76\u4e0d\u4ee3\u8868\u300c\u540c\u6b65\u300d<\/p>\n [00:33:15] 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\u201c\u8fd9\u4e48\u591a\u5e74\u6765<\/p>\n \u5728\u5f80\u524d\u7684\u9053\u8def\u4e0a<\/p>\n \u6bcf\u4e00\u6b65\u90fd\u662f\u548c\u53e6\u5916\u7684\u6211\u5206\u9053\u626c\u9573<\/p>\n \u90a3\u4e9b\u6211\u4eec\u53bb\u4e86\u90a3\u91cc\uff1f\u201d (\u90ed\u6c9b\u6587\u300a\u9e4c\u9e51\u300b)<\/p>\n [01:16:01] \u5728\u8bf4\u51fa\u300c\u5206\u624b\u300d\u524d\uff0c\u5979\u4eec\u5df2\u7ecf\u5206\u5f00\u5f88\u4e45\u4e86<\/p>\n Part 4: \u7231\u9700\u8981\u6301\u4e4b\u4ee5\u6052\u7684\u884c\u52a8\uff0c\u7231\u7684\u552f\u4e00\u76ee\u7684\u5c31\u662f\u7231<\/strong><\/p>\n [01:20:11] \u6211\u4eec\u603b\u662f\u9700\u8981\u901a\u8fc7\u5bf9\u65b9\u7684\u8bdd\u8bed\u548c\u884c\u52a8\u6765\u786e\u8ba4\u4eba\u4e0e\u4eba\u7684\u76f8\u4f3c\u6027\u3002<\/p>\n [01:24:26] Love isn\u2019t something that weak and lazy people do. \u61d2\u4eba\u548c\u61e6\u5f31\u7684\u4eba\u90fd\u65e0\u6cd5\u62e5\u6709\u7231\u60c5<\/p>\n [01:25:33] \u7b03\u4fe1\u300c\u7075\u9b42\u4f34\u4fa3\u300d\u5b58\u5728\uff0c\u8fc7\u5206\u4fe1\u4ef0\u300c\u547d\u8fd0\u300d\uff0c\u662f\u7ee2\u5bf9\u7231\u60c5\u7684\u61d2\u60f0<\/p>\n [01:32:09] \u8ba9\u300c\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\u300d\u6210\u4e3a\u7231\u60c5\u7684\u552f\u4e00\u76ee\u6807\uff0c\u662f\u9ea6\u9762\u5bf9\u7231\u60c5\u6311\u6218\u7684\u602f\u61e6<\/p>\n [01:37:48] \u5982\u4eca\uff0c\u7231\u60c5\u5df2\u7ecf\u88ab\u788e\u7247\u5316\u3001\u5a31\u4e50\u5316\u3001\u6e38\u620f\u5316\u7684\u5fc3\u52a8\u4f53\u9a8c\u8150\u8680<\/p>\n [01:40:38] \u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u9009\u62e9\u8f9b\u82e6\u7684\u7231\u60c5\uff1f\u4e3a\u4ec0\u4e48\u300c\u660e\u77e5\u4e0d\u53ef\u4e3a\u300d\u5374\u504f\u8981\u4e3a\u4e4b\uff1f<\/p>\n \u914d\u4e50\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n \u738b\u83f2 – \u5f53\u65f6\u7684\u6708\u4eae<\/p>\n Joshua Chiong-After All This (Piano Version)<\/p>\n Piano Sonata No. 8 in C Minor, Op. 13 “Path\u00e9tique”\/ II. Adagio cantabile<\/p>\n Berceuse, Op. 57<\/p>\n Joshua Chiong-Looking back<\/p>\n Joshua Chiong-Peculiar Hello<\/p>\n Joshua Chiong-Just for a minute<\/p>\n Joshua Chiong-Not Alone<\/p>\n \u674e\u95f0\u73c9-Passing By (\u7ecf\u8fc7)<\/p>\n \u90ed\u9876,\u5c71\u5f62\u745e\u79cb-It’s Always The Little Things<\/p>\n \u5f15\u7528\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n Knee, C. R. (1998). Implicit theories of relationships: Assessment and prediction of romantic relationship initiation, coping, and longevity. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology<\/p>\n Yuval Noah Harari\u300aHomo Deus\u300b\/\u300a\u672a\u6765\u7b80\u53f2\u300b<\/p>\n Alain de Botton\u300aOn Love\u300b\/ \u963f\u5170\u2022\u5fb7\u6ce2\u987f\u300a\u7231\u60c5\u7b14\u8bb0\u300b<\/p>\n \u90ed\u6c9b\u6587\u300a\u9e4c\u9e51\u300b<\/p>\n \u5173\u6ce8\/\u8054\u7cfb\u6211\u4eec\uff1a<\/strong><\/p>\n \u5fae\u535a\uff1aah\u662f\u732b\u54aa\u5440\uff08\u6b22\u8fce\u6765\u64b8\u5c0f\u732b\u54aa~\uff09<\/p>\n \u90ae\u7bb1\uff1aahsmmy@163.com<\/p>\n